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Wednesday, 26 November 2008
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What's For Supper?
Since being married, people seem fascinated to quiz me on my cooking habits.
The first questionthat comes is, predictably, "How's married life?" (To which I reply, "WONDERFUL!" of course.) But it's amazing how many people follow it up with, "What are you making for supper?" as happened twice today.
Today the question was posed by an elderly volunteer who comes weekly to clean the office where I work.
"Hmmmm," I answered, "I'm not sure yet, but I think I'll make tacos."
"Oh. . . " She stood looking at me thoughtfully. "Well, I'm sure he's used to stuff. . . like that. . ." Her voice trailed off for a moment and then she shook her head and chuckled. "You know. These young people will eat anything!"Ah ha. Thanks for that vote of confidence.
Tuesday, 30 September 2008
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Dreams coming true
“Why don’t you ever post any more?” The girls asked me at retreat.
“I will!” I said. But what do I ever post about? What’s happening or what's on my mind. “I’ve even started a few times. But the only thing that’s going on and the main thing I think about is our wedding, our house, and my wonderful Packy, and no one wants to hear about that.”
“Why not?!” They were a little indignant. "Who says?"
“But it’s soooooooooooo sappy!” I sighed. Even though I'm now hopelessly in love, I am smart enough to remember that sappy people can just be annoying if it gets out of hand.
They tell me I'm allowed to be sappy. So, here I am.We're setting up housekeeping in a little square house that resembles a garage. (Probably because it used to be one.) It doesn't really resemble my original "dream house" idea that I've had for years except that it has lots of windows. But don't misunderstand me. I love it. It has become the home of my dreams.
I had a conversation with Jonny a couple years ago that might explain how I feel. I was making some comment about my "dream house".
"You know," he said practically, "You probably won't get your dream house."
"I know," I said. Then I thought a moment. "No, I think I could. It might not look like the house I'm describing, but I believe I will get my dream house. Any house could be adjusted to become my dream house."
He disagreed with me. "Anything? There's no way a cardboard box could be your dream house."
I told him that it could. . . depending on who was sharing the cardboard box with me.
And so here I am, very fond of our cozy little house (which is highly superior to a cardboard box, just to clarify) and looking forward to moving in. I love it when the afternoon sun streams in the patio doors. I love it when I sit down to play piano and the sound fills the house. I love the little kitchen, the windows that swing inside for easy washing, the bedrooms, and even the wierd bathroom with the toilet out in the middle of the floor. I love to step outside and walk under the trees and imagine where we might put the garden or a flowerbed. I love the house -- but what I love most of all is when Packy and I are there together and it starts to feel like home.
A few very outdated pictures - looks different by now so I suppose I'll have to post again.
Quote of the Day:
"Want go to Grammy's house?"
--Caleb, who wasn't at all impressed with our house after he learned that it didn't have any toys.
Sunday, 13 July 2008
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My co-worker Rhonda and I were playing with two little girls at work. One of them fell asleep in my lap, and the other – I’ll call her Sara – was playing make-believe with Rhonda and carting around a small doll as her baby. I overheard this conversation between the two of them:
“This is my husband,” Sara said.
“Oh! What’s his name?”
“Santos.”
“Hi Santos, pleased to meet you,” Rhonda said politely to the imaginary man.
Sara turned suddenly and her tone was angry. “Santos! I’m going to punch you in the face!”
Rhonda was genuinely shocked. “Sara! Why would you talk like that?”
Sara looked at her. “He’s my husband,” She said simply, as if puzzled that Rhonda was questioning her.
I almost laughed, but the reality of the situation was so saddening to me that I haven’t forgotten it. Children only imitate what they see and hear around them. What are they seeing? What are they hearing? Does our culture or the media place any value on marriage and family, let alone the God-given roles of men and women? Hardly.
Trying to establish a stable, godly home in a world as dark as this seems so small and insignificant compared to the statistics and the opposition. But so necessary. Sometimes I wonder if I am up to the challenge. Yet God is so much bigger. His Kingdom will win in the end. And maybe we can make our corner of the world a little brighter by living His way.
But do the kids like Sara even have a chance to know the joy of commitment and true love?
Quote of the day: “What we desire our children to become, we must endeavor to be before them.”
-Andrew Combe
Monday, 23 June 2008
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A Rainbow Colored Day
There are, I find, more ways to define a perfectly lovely day. . . for I've had another one. Even lovelier than the last.
I might even say that it was -- as someone once wrote -- "A rainbow colored day. . . one of those rare days when everything seems to go right."
Warm sunshine. . .
Beautiful summertime. . .
Sparkling lakes. . .
Lighthouses. . .
Waterfalls. . .
Laughter. . .
Love. . .
An engagement. . .
Leaving me overflowing with happiness and praising the faithful God who has already given me so much, but continues to pile joy upon joys.
Could I possibly be more blessed?
Quote of the Day:
"Will you marry me?"
--Packy
Saturday, 14 June 2008
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A Lovely Day
How might one define a lovely day?
Activities? Weather? Scenery?
What makes one day
more lovely than another?My lovely day was spent
in the company of a beautiful friend.
And the time we spent together was special
because it is rare.Having tea and enjoying the sunshine. . .
pondering the seasons of life.
Dashing through the rain. . .
and laughing about nothing in particular.
Walking together and talking
about family, friends, and God,
Reminiscing about times past
or just enjoying comfortable silence.Music,
Conversation,
And friendship intact even through distance and time. . .
One definition of a truly lovely day.(Finally it's my turn to post about seeing a friend from BMABI!)
Quote of the Day:
"A cheerful friend is like a sunny day, which sheds it's brightness all around."
-unknown






